#ArtOfLovely: 𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓵𝓲𝓮𝓼, many of us are under the impression that pageantry is composed of beautiful women who are superficial and lack intellect. But nothing could be further from the truth. Although, the ladies are indeed stunning; they are also confident, intelligent, caring and compassionate. Lovely traits that we can all cultivate and aspire to.
👑Here are our Top 3 #feminine skills to learn from the world of pageantry:
Between the initial auditions, vetting interviews and the competing process, every pageant queen had to build their self-confidence before even stepping unto the main stage.
Similarly, before stepping into the proverbial stage of your life, take the time to work on your self esteem with positive affirmations, inspiring books, self help courses, as well as setting appropriate boundaries within your relationships. Competing in a pageant allows one to build their self-confidence to soar, build a platform of influence and accomplish many of their dreams.
Likewise, pageants are pictures of the competition we all face in life. Not with others but with the person we were yesterday. Once you set your goals your only competitor should be your own reflection.
👑2. 𝓔𝓷𝓱𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓲𝓷𝓰, 𝓷𝓸𝓽 𝓯𝓪𝓴𝓲𝓷𝓰
How many times have you felt pressured to look like someone else, adopt their mannerism and even talk like them? In pageants it’s easy to try to force yourself into a mold to win the coveted crown.
But every Pageant queen will tell you it’s a waste of time, plus it’s exhausting! It’s hard enough to be yourself! You are filled with so many amazing talents and gifts that bring a unique spice to life, so don’t undermine that. You are unique and full of gifts and talent and it’s a blessing to share your authentic presence with others.
So own what you have and who you ARE! So whether you win the proverbial contest or conquer a huge goal or not, the most beautiful crown is showing up as the real you.
👑3.𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓟𝓸𝔀𝓮𝓻 𝓸𝓯 𝓟𝓸𝓲𝓼𝓮
“Shoulders back, chin up, hands on your hips”! The quintessential trait of the pageant queen, is her graceful and elegant gait. The way pageant queens effortlessly strut on stage, while keeping their composure before a panel of analytical judges and a demanding audience, is nothing short of inspirational.
We can all learn from this perfect poise By practicing in the mirror, wearing clothing that accentuates our figure and maintins a calm self possession.
This is an essential feminine skill that you can master in real life. It is useful to carry this information into your next professional interview. As you walk into your boss’ office to negotiate a raise or entering a ritzy place for a date with a high-value man. Displaying your gracious composure is a real asset and can open more doors than you can imagine.
Thanks for reading, which tip is your fav? Which skill will you work on? Share below⬇️